{"id":482,"date":"2019-11-30T23:26:25","date_gmt":"2019-11-30T22:26:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rubyjournals.com\/staystange\/frygten-for-at-fejle-36668553\/"},"modified":"2019-11-30T23:26:25","modified_gmt":"2019-11-30T22:26:25","slug":"frygten-for-at-fejle-36668553","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test.staystrange.dk\/index.php\/2019\/11\/30\/frygten-for-at-fejle-36668553\/","title":{"rendered":"Frygten for at fejle.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e5r <a>det g\u00e6lder store dr\u00f8mme og dertilh\u00f8rende store valg<\/a>, er det tit &#8216;lettere sagt end gjort&#8217;. Men det f\u00f8rste skridt mod handling og \u00e6ndringer er (for mig) at s\u00e6tte ord p\u00e5. Sige det h\u00f8jt. Men n\u00e5r jeg kommer til det d\u00e9r eftersted &#8211; stedet mellem at have sagt noget h\u00f8jt og s\u00e5 at tage et skridt, g\u00f8re noget, pr\u00f8ve.. &#8211; s\u00e5 rammer \u00e9n stor forhindring mig virkelig ofte. En sten p\u00e5 vejen, som f\u00e5r mig til at standse op, f\u00e5 kolde f\u00f8dder, tr\u00e6kke vejret dybt ind. En sten p\u00e5 vejen, som kan f\u00f8les som et bjerg p\u00e5 stien:<\/p>\n<p>Frygten for at fejle.<\/p>\n<p>Jeg kan ikke huske, hvor l\u00e6nge f\u00f8lelsen har boet hos mig. F\u00f8lelsen af, at v\u00e6re bange for at tr\u00e6de forkert. Jeg har ofte f\u00f8lt, at der kun var \u00e9n vej at g\u00e5. En sti at betr\u00e6de. Og tr\u00e5dte jeg forkert, tr\u00e5dte jeg udenfor. Ud i kulden. Ud hvor der kunne blive talt bag min ryg. T\u00e6nkt d\u00e5rligt om mig. Det har til tider gjort mig svimmel. Fordi det blive man af intenst at stirre p\u00e5 en h\u00e5rdt optrukket linje p\u00e5 jorden foran sig. Des mere jeg t\u00e6nker over det, des mere tror jeg, at mine mange tanker om, hvad andre t\u00e6nker, h\u00e6nge ul\u00f8seligt sammen med frygten for at fejle. For jeg er ikke lige s\u00e5 mange bange for, hvad andre t\u00e6nker, hvis var garanteret, at de t\u00e6nkte gode ting. Nej, jeg er meget mere bange for at blive d\u00f8mt ude. Eller bare d\u00f8mt. Som fejl.<\/p>\n<p>Men hvad er en fejl i det hele taget? Er det at g\u00f8re noget, som ikke bliver anerkendt? Noget som ikke bliver vel modtaget? Noget som man selv ville have gjort anerledes? En klog mand, som er god til at st\u00e5 p\u00e5 ski, sagde en gang til mig, at ambitionen p\u00e5 ski m\u00e5 v\u00e6re altid at falde \u00e9n gang om dagen &#8211; uanset hvor god man er.. Moralen var, at hvis ikke man falder dagligt, har man ikke udfordret sig selv nok. S\u00e5 m\u00e5ske fejltrin slet ikke er fejltrin, men fald p\u00e5 vejen.. P\u00e5 den udfordrende vej, som g\u00f8r \u00e9n bedre. Dag for dag.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-7238\" src=\"http:\/\/rubyjournals.com\/staystange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/30\/2019\/11\/201911302323197490.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"770\" height=\"962\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rubyjournals.com\/staystange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/30\/2019\/11\/201911302323197490.jpg 770w, https:\/\/rubyjournals.com\/staystange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/30\/2019\/11\/201911302323197490-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/rubyjournals.com\/staystange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/30\/2019\/11\/201911302323197490-768x960.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pr\u00e6cis <a href=\"http:\/\/staystrange.dk\/ting-jeg-har-lart-af-mit-barn-2-34537348\">som mit barn der lige har l\u00e6rt at g\u00e5, men rejser sig igen og igen<\/a>, uanset hvor mange gange han falder. Pr\u00e6cis som hans s\u00f8ster gjorde f\u00f8r ham. 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